I want to have children, but I am worried that I will be stuck in a sexless and eventually loveless marriage. Hi, I love your materials and I wish thar they had been available many years ago. This list also includes my sexual likes. Not talking to her doesn't help. Q MY wife and I have been married for 30 years, and about 15 years ago, our sex life went away.
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So you are right to put a lot of attention on getting exactly what you want. Like someone earlier posted, he's extremely quiet during sex too, so I feel like I'm just a hole to be used vs someone to enjoy being with. It's seems like we can't just find a way to have a healthy sex life. This is serious, and it's well past being about sex. Secondly, I am glad you are trying to figure out how not to have the same situation occur for you with your new woman. Anonymous November 3, at I would like to talk about it, and I am perfectly willing to listen.
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As long as you aren't being hurt, what is wrong with giving him what he wants. He can masturbate and have success but if I touch him I have been married many years to a woman who won't have sex, and doesn't want to talk about it. Have a sense of humor. You can order the book online!!! I am sorry for your loss, and also, happy to hear you have a new relationship that seems to be deepening.
My idea, throw a little humor into it. Otherwise how can a couple appreciate reciprocation such as similar libidos or a similar kind of love for each other? Here's a quick update Secondly, I am glad you are trying to figure out how not to have the same situation occur for you with your new woman. Leave him and get a roommate, learn to desire him again or let him mess around.